jointhefediverse.net seems to be a commonly linked resource for directing people to join the Fediverse.
Curiously, it does not list Lemmy under the list of Reddit alternatives. Their GitHub README explains why.
Previous relevant discussion: https://lemmy.ml/post/78808
It can be their privilege and also be censorship. You seem to imply otherwise.
Do I? You seem to enjoy pedantic hairsplitting, but I fail to see where you’re going with this.