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      10 hours ago

      This is kind of meme, that if I had a girlfriend (hypothetically that is, I don’t have one) and one of my friends (again hypothetical, don’t have one of those either) would send it to her, I would see this as a kind of cheating. Would anyone agree?

      EDIT: I mean my friend would cheat on our friendship, or my girlfriend would cheat if she engaged in this.

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        20 hours ago

        Damn dude. I want you to be happy, but maybe don’t date until you’ve talked to a therapist about shit like this. :p

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          10 hours ago

          This is kind of meme, that if I had a therapist (hypothetically that is, I don’t have one) and my girlfriend (again hypothetical, don’t have one either) would send it to my therapist, I would see this as a kind of cheating. Would anyone agree?

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        22 hours ago

        So if your friend sends your girlfriend a sexual meme, did she just cheat on you? No, that’s fucking dumb.

        Hell, even if she were the one that sent it to him, it still wouldn’t be cheating. But I could at least understand where someone is coming from if they thought it was. Blaming the GF for the friend’s actions though? Lol okay.

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          10 hours ago

          I mean my girlfriend can of course not be blamed for messages she receives, but I would see is as cheating from the side of my (hypothetical) friend, or if my hypothetical girlfriend would engage in this.