Like, am I too sensitive and this is justified or is this dumb? My sister Lena’s ex “friends” hate her and act rude to her because Lena autistic, starts conversations with them, and says she likes their outfit occasionally, which they accuse her of doing “every hour”.

Her friend Ashlyn accuses her of being a creepy stalker because Lena approached Ashlyn and her friends, said "Hey”, then remained quiet because it’s RUDE to talk over ppl and when they’re already talking. She then walked away and approached Ashlyn again to make conversation with her only to be told she’s creepy.

“Oh, she’s just upset”

“Oh, she’s just abrasive like that”

“Ppl hate when they’re spoken to. She’s an introvert with depression, NPD, and isn’t used to being greeted” (Most ppl only hate being spoken to by ppl they don’t like).

“Oh, she doesn’t HATE you, she just…”

Ashlyn is also a hypocrite who clearly hates Lena and treats ppl badly (but they suck it up bc they like her that much) and gets mad at ppl but does the same crap. She not only lies that everyone hates Lena, but tries to guilt-trip her into feeling bad for these “poor bullies” who hate Lena, find her and her conditions disgusting, and want her to suffer. This is a bit sick.

(I feel like these bullies are all just one girl pretending to be other ppl, which is quite dedicated of her)

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    how so suspicious?

    btw: lena wasn’t even following her, she walked up to her, then left. this other girl frequently harasses her. (not op, but still)

    and yeah, she seems to be trying to be polite because they were friends

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      After reading over yet again, maybe ‘suspicious’ wasn’t the best word. Still sounds awkward, but nothing I’d think people should get too upset about.

      Every situation is different though, and there’s crazies out there that will just as soon shoot a person for knocking on the wrong door.

      Sigh, I’m getting more and more disappointed with humanity by the day…

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        Doesn’t seem awkward to me, most people say “How are you?” when they see me, except for the trying to start a convo thing.

        I have photos of the conversation between them in other posts, Ash is literally insane.