But I don’t think that this was intentional in the way that you’re making it out to be. I once had a friend piss in our other friends hamper, thinking it was the bathroom. When we confronted him about it, he asked us how we unlocked the door to the bathroom. We out him back to bed. When we brought it up the next day he didn’t remember any of it, and was fucking mortified.
Having been blackout drunk myself and not remembering doing things I’ve been told I did, I get it.
I think that’s what happened here. I think homegirl thought she was somewhere private or something. I’m not so sure she was drugged, but maybe she was.
I also don’t think it’s a swinger party. It looks like a few people were shocked by what they were seeing.
People do need to take responsibility for doing dumb shit when they’re drunk, but like… We’re all human, and this is so over the line, I can’t see any normal person just doing this because they had a few drinks and are a little drunk, and they’re like “ah what the hell, im gonna blow him right now!”
I grew up with multiple alcoholics in my family, so I have heard all the excuses and watched people who knew exactly what could, and in many cases definitely would happen, chose “just having a little fun” over literally other peoples lives. I had an uncle, that not only lost his license for life, but went to prison (not jail but real prison) more than once for DWI and driving without a license. He died in exactly the fiery car crash he deserved, and thankfully only took his passenger with him and not the family in the station wagon that he hit.
I myself have gotten pretty fucked up at times, but I also make sure it’s never going the be other people’s problem. Or if it is going to be someone else’s problem, that they are consenting and know what they signed up for. On the other hand, when going out with a group, I always offer to be the sober one, and I still manage to have a great time.
I get where you are coming from, but I also know that people who can’t handle their alcohol know exactly who they are. Getting as fucked up as the people in the video, required effort and forethought.
I agree with the bulk of what you’re saying here.
But I don’t think that this was intentional in the way that you’re making it out to be. I once had a friend piss in our other friends hamper, thinking it was the bathroom. When we confronted him about it, he asked us how we unlocked the door to the bathroom. We out him back to bed. When we brought it up the next day he didn’t remember any of it, and was fucking mortified.
Having been blackout drunk myself and not remembering doing things I’ve been told I did, I get it.
I think that’s what happened here. I think homegirl thought she was somewhere private or something. I’m not so sure she was drugged, but maybe she was.
I also don’t think it’s a swinger party. It looks like a few people were shocked by what they were seeing.
People do need to take responsibility for doing dumb shit when they’re drunk, but like… We’re all human, and this is so over the line, I can’t see any normal person just doing this because they had a few drinks and are a little drunk, and they’re like “ah what the hell, im gonna blow him right now!”
I grew up with multiple alcoholics in my family, so I have heard all the excuses and watched people who knew exactly what could, and in many cases definitely would happen, chose “just having a little fun” over literally other peoples lives. I had an uncle, that not only lost his license for life, but went to prison (not jail but real prison) more than once for DWI and driving without a license. He died in exactly the fiery car crash he deserved, and thankfully only took his passenger with him and not the family in the station wagon that he hit.
I myself have gotten pretty fucked up at times, but I also make sure it’s never going the be other people’s problem. Or if it is going to be someone else’s problem, that they are consenting and know what they signed up for. On the other hand, when going out with a group, I always offer to be the sober one, and I still manage to have a great time.
I get where you are coming from, but I also know that people who can’t handle their alcohol know exactly who they are. Getting as fucked up as the people in the video, required effort and forethought.