ickplant@lemmy.world to Lemmy Be Wholesome@lemmy.world · 14 天前I'm not crying, you're cryinglemmy.worldimagemessage-square60linkfedilinkarrow-up1819arrow-down125
arrow-up1794arrow-down1imageI'm not crying, you're cryinglemmy.worldickplant@lemmy.world to Lemmy Be Wholesome@lemmy.world · 14 天前message-square60linkfedilink
minus-squareSonicdemon86@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9arrow-down1·14 天前Sounds like you need a new therapist as that doesn’t seem like empathy to me.
minus-squareickplant@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·14 天前I would second this. I heard many stories from clients where I couldn’t relate personally, but the whole point of empathy is to put yourself in that person’s shoes and say “Ok, if I were you in this situation, I’d feel the same way you do.”
minus-squareSonicdemon86@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·14 天前Thats true I’ve had too many therapist pity me instead of empathize with me. I’ve gotten enough pity through out my life.
Sounds like you need a new therapist as that doesn’t seem like empathy to me.
I would second this. I heard many stories from clients where I couldn’t relate personally, but the whole point of empathy is to put yourself in that person’s shoes and say “Ok, if I were you in this situation, I’d feel the same way you do.”
Thats true I’ve had too many therapist pity me instead of empathize with me. I’ve gotten enough pity through out my life.
Oh I definitely changed after that