This one lady is considered very kind. She is to most people, that’s why they consider her this way. The lady’s friend says they’re the problem if the lady is mean to them.

I’ve been treated very badly for having learning disabilities and attention problems. Rather than talk to me and try to help me, this lady tried to beat me up, wants to hurt me, and is now ignoring me because she said she hates me and blocked me. I’m happy without her, though.

Is it possible that she can act like this and still be a good and kind person despite hating people with problems and being a bit homophobic?

    • Hoimo@ani.socialEnglish
      4·
      2 days ago

      We’re going to need much more detail to accurately assess her behavior. At the risk of blaming the victim, but we can’t even establish that you’re the victim yet. There’s some situations where a punch would be totally justified and you haven’t confirmed or denied anything.

      First things first, were you invited to her house (or had reason to think she’d welcome you)?

      • permathrowawayOPEnglish
        21·
        2 days ago

        I was invited. I went to her house and she invited me to go to her room. She pushed me onto the bed and told me to take my clothes off (she wanted to see if I was fat or something) but I refused. She said she was going to beat me up for refusing, but then she stopped and asked why I cared about her.

        She left to do something, and I left the house and went home.

        • Hoimo@ani.socialEnglish
          2·
          20 hours ago

          Okay, from this (and your deleted post), I think I can give you some advice. She’s not normal. Anyone who tells you she’s a nice person is either not normal or doesn’t know her. Don’t accept anyone treating you like that.

          You didn’t mention any ages. It could still be that she’s a fairly normal 14 year old, I guess? Girls at that age tend to go a bit insane. (Boys take a few more years.) If that’s the case, I’d say that she honestly likes you and has no idea how to express it. You still shouldn’t accept her treating you like that, but it could be a salvagable situation. If she’s an adult though, tell any common friends what she’s truly like and never speak to her again.