Even if you don’t have them but relate, feel free to share. Even if you can’t relate and just want to listen, that’s fine, too. When I get an attachment, I want to BE a part of their body. I’m crazy and obsessive. I suspect BPD but don’t know if I 100% have it, especially since I’m young, but I’ve always had an unstable or undefined sense of identity.

Even if I’m sure I’m a trans man, for example, one of my attachments was a cis woman who used to be trans a while ago before realizing it wasn’t her and feeling dysphoric after identifying as a femboy. I’m trying to get over said attachment and be normal around people like her, but something in me thought it’d be the answer if I too was cis and a detransitioner and even though it’s not me to be a girl, I wanted to repress my identity for a bit so I could be a woman, but then I see that I’m a man and repressing just makes it come back and the dysphoria doesn’t go away at all.