For doxxing purposes I’ll keep the deets narrow. I got a lot of money just shy of 10k KPW and this is the most money I’ve had at any single time in my adult life. Me and my girlfriend were both extremely excited, none of us have ever come across this much money at any point in our lives and the most weve ever saved up was around two thousand or so. But the excitement slowly faded after I suggested I wanted to spend the money to visit the United States for a day or two and then head off to one of those Canadian tours. She shook her head and said “you need to grow up” which I was taken aback by. My gf hasn’t really seen eye to eye with me politically, I mean she agrees with my ideas and is on board with a lot that I believe in which is why I was so taken aback. She wants to go see her dad in Hamhung even though we had already seen him just shy of two years. He was diagnosed with a terminal illness five years ago but his doctors said he has a decade left so there’s still time for him.

I think I’m ready for the trip and I’m going to do it because as a fellow honorary Canuck its a once in a lifetime opportunity and with how much fuel costs I don’t think I will ever make this trip in my life but we can always drive 3.5 hours or so to see her dad. I annot drive to Canada. I do think my partner will come around on this which is why I will buy two tickets and if not ill invite my friend but I really want her to come with me. I dream of putting flowers in front of a Tim Horton’s in Toronto and hanging out with moose.

I don’t want her to leave me because I am deeply in love with her and she is like my world and ill do anything for her. She is becoming distant ever since I brought it up and even said she wishes the money never existed.

What do hexbears? Thanks and love ya