• Parastie@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    This is entirely a USA problem. No one in Europe uses iMessage as their primary messaging app.

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          7 months ago

          Interesting ty!

          So before you can message anyone you have to download whatsapp? iMessage is preinstalled and is also e2e encrypted. Idk if I’d rather Facebook or Apple (who can access iCloud backups of normally otherwise encrypted data, etc.) in charge of my messaging infrastructure, honestly.

          Americans with Android are left to use literal SMS which is atrocious, or a different messaging solution, probably whatsapp I guess

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            Americans with Android are stuck using SMS half the time because Americans with iPhones are literally holding us back. If it wasn’t for iMessage, we would have ditched SMS years ago, but when you suggest to an iPhone user that they use something other than iMessage their head explodes, apparently.

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              when you suggest to an iPhone user that they use something other than iMessage their head explodes, apparently.

              Android users aren’t in such a tiny minority over there. Even by pure chance, there should be a decent number of Android users initiating events but since even they are so obsessed with iMessage, they don’t even try to use something else.

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                7 months ago

                Android users aren’t in such a tiny minority over there.

                Yep, Android makes up around 40-45% of the mobile OS in America, depending on what site and when you look.

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            7 months ago

            iMessage is preinstalled

            The whole point is: it isn’t more often than not. And unlike Whatsapp, you can’t even install it.

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                  Encrypted during transfer, yes, but still decrypted in the apps

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                In the congress hearing zucky boy did, he was asked whether Facebook could read Messenger and WhatsApp messages

                his response was to more or less trip over himself avowing that Facebook couldn’t read WhatsApp messages—even when a follow up question specifically asked him about Messenger, he chose to ignore it and reaffirm that WhatsApp messages were private

                i don’t really see why he would’ve done that unless WhatsApp actually was encrypted, given that if he were lying about one it would be a lot easier to just lie about both

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                  7 months ago

                  his response was to more or less trip over himself avowing that Facebook couldn’t read WhatsApp messages—even when a follow up question specifically asked him about Messenger, he chose to ignore it and reaffirm that WhatsApp messages were private

                  Even FB Messenger: https://signal.org/blog/facebook-messenger/

                  It was optional for ages and recently read about it becoming the default.

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            6 months ago

            So before you can message anyone you have to download whatsapp?

            I love how this seems like a near insurmountable hurdle. Install an app?? On a phone?!

            I have a relative who is ~85 years old; he uses WhatsApp. It’s really not that hard.

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            7 months ago

            Android users get to use the default messages app, with the whole e2e encryption, reactions, full sized photos etc… SMS is used for advertisements, and sending messages to iphone users… SMS is only used by old people for 2fa as 2fa apps usualy have superior security and are now systematically prefered by companies.

            Both iphone users and android users need to download an extra app if they want E2E, full graphic images and videos, reactions etc…

            Just as people aren’t content with iWork and usually download Office because it works the same and can be read with the same formatting everywhere.

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            7 months ago

            WhatsApp became the dominant messaging platform in Europe before Facebook bought them. Most people are locked in to it because change is hard and they don’t care that much about privacy.

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        7 months ago

        Over here it’s Facebook Messenger, followed by Telegram and only then WhatsApp. Signal is niche stuff for nerds such as yours truly.

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            6 months ago

            Yeah it actually varies a lot. In Poland Whatsapp is the boomer messaging app for cringy political memes used exclusively by 50+ year-olds. Everyone else uses Facebook Messenger and Telegram (especially Ukrainians, Belarussians and people who work with them)

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        Germany uses Whatsapp and Signal. Whatsapp for the older generation, Signal for the younger ones. But almost everyone has both. Telegram is a niche messenger for conspiracy theorists and alt-righters, because it’s russian and those people love Russia.

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          i live in germany and to me telegram doesn’t feel niche at all.

          a lot of younger people use it a bit like discord, like for group stuff. organizing (like e.g. political activism), finding apartents in berlin, and yes, getting drugs as well. also some worklplaces use it (which i think is terrible). it is also preferred by a lot of people to communicate via telegram over signal or whatsapp in situations where people don’t want to give away their number, like online dating.

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      6 months ago

      And I refuse to use any Facebook products, so what’s app can fuck right off

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      7 months ago

      Not a problem for me lmao. No one I talk to uses apple products because we have self respect

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    7 months ago

    I really hate that some people I know only use Facebook Messenger, some use Instagram, some use Discord, and some use text.

    It’s a nightmare when working in groups for uni, so I just email everyone. Email has all the features I like.

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      6 months ago

      I have plenty of folks in my circles who never read or reply to emails :p

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    7 months ago

    Yeah the vast, vast majority of folk use Android, it’s Apple that fucked up SMS.

    Fuck them, nobody uses SMS for that reason, let Apple sort it out, or be forced to by the EU again lol

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          All my family uses Android, except for a few exceptions. They all dropped signal when it lost sms support. So we use sms instead, fucking cool move signal.

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            We don’t use Signal for SMS, we use Signal for E2E encryption. Signal for SMS is useless.

            I’ve basically started telling people to either message me on Signal or I likely won’t respond in a timely manner, if ever. Not my problem. Urgent? Better call.

            Dick move? Maybe. But fuck SMS and fuck iMessage.

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              Nah, that’s like saying “I won’t respond to a fax in a timely manner”.
              SMS is dated/dying/dead

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    6 months ago

    The elephant in the room, of course, is that this is literally only a problem in the United States. Everywhere else in the world, folks are totally fine using messaging apps. WhatsApp is pretty popular worldwide, and there are regional favorites too. But, the point is, it’s only in the States that people seem to be against this idea. The answer for why is very much up for debate, but the conversation is, at this point, just getting exhausting.

    Can confirm, as a Brit. We probably would have a sardonic explanation for why only people in the States are against using other messengers too…

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      I went to great lengths to get my family group chat migrated from FB Messenger over to WhatsApp, and then Meta bought WhatsApp. I’m doomed. I’ll never get these Americans to transition to something like Signal

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      I’m Canadian and use a ton of messaging services. It had honestly become ridiculous until I started using Beeper!

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      Yep. In Japan we all use LINE with a small fraction of (largely Western foreigners) using whatsapp. Korea has kakaotalk with some (also?) using LINE. I’m not sure what’s most popular in Chinese circles these days; WeChat, maybe?

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      I think this might be changing in the U.S., because my friend group only talks on Discord. I don’t even have their phone numbers.

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    I still really miss Google Hangouts. It was integrated with Gmail as a web interface. The web and mobile app synced perfectly. You could use SMS/MMS, or chat, seamlessly in the same interface. Contacts worked correctly. SMS and chat history saved to Gmail so all the text was searchable. It was AMAZING and Google killed it for no reason, only to later replace it with inferior options.

    Edit: oh yeah, you could also make phone calls, or group voice and video calls using the same app/web interface.

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    6 months ago

    I want to use good apps, but my family members don’t. I can’t just avoid my family.

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    6 months ago

    What is wrong with simply texting? If anyone tells me I need to get a specific app to message them, then I won’t be messaging them.

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      6 months ago

      Security is probably the most important, but there are also general chat utility features such as replies and read receipts.

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      6 months ago

      This right here is the attitude that most people have, because it’s not convenient for them. Suck it up, there are many things in life you do not want to do, but you have to do them anyways.