I okay with you making an opinion. I know I’m perfect. If you care to help, I would appreciate it.

The questions are: How do Black men/Asian women couples manage the pressure of conservative family views or racist stereotypes, and was it worth it?

Black men in the PNW who have dated Asian women: What is your experience with navigating cultural differences and family opposition?

Thank you for your personal perspective. I honestly agree that there is a large misrepresentation from films produced from “Hollywood” in regards to the everyday Black caucus here in America and how that rerun imaging continues to hurt the international portrayal of the Black people.

I don’t plan to visit China per say. I’m not opposed to the thought of dating a Chinese woman.

I really would like to know just how deeply ingrained in thier population is it okay to “hate” another race and especially Black people.

I’d like to know where you draw your rational from. I don’t completely doubt your view of the social progress and credit of a people in the eyes of many other’s. Just would like to know your background a bit.

Your opinion may shead some light on the topic, regardless of your skin color. Please enlighten me. I doubt I have as much experience as you? Are you located in the PNW?

I am sorry, I can’t. I’m not a woman. What I can offer is this, they are not all the same. I have dated Black women that went to college, church; job and no job; weed smoker and non weed smoking…and the black women still want to hit me. Just try not to piss them off, I suppose. I personally love a woman that can and doesn’t mind throwing hands. Be in the gym or defending her self if need be. However, if any woman raises her hand toward me I’m out.

I think a lot of movies and bad parenting or lack of parenting are the vectors as to why women feel its okay for them to assault a male and think it’s okay and not against the law. I don’t. I also dont think a male is a man if he raises his hand to a woman; without a righteous cause in the purest of action. I know we dont live in a perfect world and thus there are no perfect women nor men. So, I excuse her throwing stuff at me or slapping my chest with tears in her eye’s. If I did something wrong, talk about it and if I cross the boundary again, I dont respect you and you should leave me. As if and when she crosses that boundary, I’m leaving her.

I vented.

Thanks for the love and response.

Thanks for that great question and thanks for the responses.