Don’t owe anyone friendship but just to play the other side, I’ve kept a few friends after most of our mutual friends dumped them, I know a few difficult people mostly who are that way because of mental illness; autism, chronic depression, alcoholism and drug addiction, etc. I also have some old friends who annoy the shit out of me often just because of their personalities. I just think it’s nice that tough people or people having a tough time in society should also experience friendship, and it makes their antisociality better vs isolation making it worse. There’s always a line but in general I think it’s virtuous to be patient with our difficult friends because nobody is perfect and heaven knows we can be difficult too sometimes. The key is having good boundaries though, you can be friends with someone and not talk to them all the time or put up with their bullshit. Even take months breaks if you need to
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fuckahaha [they/them]@hexbear.nettohexbear@hexbear.net•Dumb question from an old: When people use “[none/use name]”, do they actually mean it?English
1·2 years agoDoes it ever seem stilted to you when people refer to those posters? Because I haven’t noticed that so it seems to me like a non-issue
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food@hexbear.net•Favorite egg cooking method?English
3·2 years agoPoached lmfao
I woulda gone with Scam Turismo 7 in the title of your post there but never mind me
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the_dunk_tank@hexbear.net•Soon Hexbear will replace tankie as the go-to insultEnglish
28·2 years ago‘Feigning’ to not understand? Nah brah we’re just actually stupid and don’t care about tedious debate, it’s the commie bimbo website
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Chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•Going to a party soon and I want to wear my new Stalin t-shirt.English
8·2 years agoPeople are saying it’s a bad idea on “don’t argue at a party” grounds, but that’s missing the point. Is it a good shirt? Does it make you look in the mirror and feel pretty? Or does it look goofy? Does it match the rest of the outfit? You will shame yourself and Stalin by being dweebie but if it looks fashion you will inspire the revolution
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food@hexbear.net•Disgusting half an inch or thicker “pancakes” aren’t good at all… crepes are the only pancakeEnglish
5·2 years agoCrepes are good and thick pancakes are good too. Pretty different things for mostly different situations and they are both good. British and American style, buttermilk or w/e, savoury, sweet. Waffles and latkes are good too. No juice to this poorly-concieved food fight. Have a nice day!
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Chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•*Permanently Deleted*English
37·2 years agoIt’s awful. And it was a bit sickening at first reading the people grave dancing on Twitter, but looking at any profiles of people doing it really puts it into perspective. Having 1000 utterly talentless 9gag-meme fascentrists hate you is a better testament to importance than the love of all your fellow travellers
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Games@hexbear.net•Should I play "Inscryption"?English
2·2 years agoI like them cause I can eat and watch Simpsons while playing them
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technology@hexbear.net•Elon Musk is considering charging everyone to use TwitterEnglish
9·2 years agoIt’s a false dichotomy though since the internet used to largely be neither full of trackers nor pay-for, without being a public utility
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technology@hexbear.net•Elon Musk is considering charging everyone to use TwitterEnglish
1·2 years agoThat’s not a nitter link >:(
In this video he is criticizing labour from the left on climate and being a remoaner, so, well-intentioned liberal but very wealthy and old so I doubt he is like, cool cool
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Movies & TV@hexbear.net•Fiona & Cake is pretty goodEnglish
1·2 years agoIt’s really good for that. It’s so silly
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chat@hexbear.net•I'm going to commit to abstaining from porn and masturbation. Deleted all my bookmarks today and set up a tracker on my phone.English
30·2 years agoGood luck, is this inspired more by worries about addiction to the act itself, or addiction to pornography / moral opposition to pornography?
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Movies & TV@hexbear.net•Fiona & Cake is pretty goodEnglish
2·2 years agoDo you smoke weed?
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askchapo@hexbear.net•Would you rather be a king in the Middle Ages or a worker in 2023?English
5·2 years agoThe hottest person in the Middle Ages is a 10/10 and it’s me, the King, and I will literally have you decapitated if you suggest otherwise
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Chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•i literally hate england so fucking muchEnglish
4·2 years agoModern convenience means if you don’t buy a month in advance through the third party app you deserve to die
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Chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•I think it's time we defederate from HexbearEnglish
27·2 years agoSite of pure hypocrisy. They claim to be volcel yet they post like they are very sexy



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