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  • lol, well … let me clarify the “beautiful” comment …

    so a coworker won “Most Attractive Employee” or something like that, yes it’s a weird company party. Anyways, the next morning I was using it pseudo-sarcastically in front of everyone by calling him a beautiful person in front of everyone. However, my other coworker thought I was talking about him and said “thank you”. However, it made him smile and I just started doing it all the time to my fellow coworkers. I definitely consider them all mates.

    What’s funny is that I actually don’t compliment my female coworkers the same way. I feel as though it could be misconstrued and I’d not like that.



  • lol I told some of my coworkers, “how’re you doing you beautiful man” … they’re like, “thank you for saying that”

    of course, you have to have a certain relationship where it doesn’t come off too weird but dudes complimenting dudes should be normalised.

    I wonder if dudes complimenting other dudes mainly applies to like “skills”. Like you’re a great fisherman or driver or coder or something. I wonder if those are more typical?




  • lobut@lemmy.catoGaming@lemmy.world[OneAndPhony] Backseat Gaming
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    23 hours ago

    I never really played competitive shooters until Marvel Rivals. I’m just trying to play a game and people are screaming up and down about nothing.

    I don’t even play competitive, I play quick match and I usually try to swap roles to match the team comp.

    I’ve been playing long enough that I try to stop people yelling at our own teammates. Although, it doesn’t stop the enemy team from instigating.