i haven’t had a microwave since i moved out of my parent’s place. figured id eventually get one when i felt like i needed it, but that still hasn’t happened 5+yrs later

this topic is too exhausting for me to get into so ill just say i hate it here lmao

start searching the platform for things you’re interested in and follow people with interesting related posts. after a while you’ve got an actual personal feed

lmfao 100mbps is pretty decent in Canada too.

ive been off facebook for quite a while now but when i was still on it, id unfollowed just about any real-life bullshit and was exclusively engaging in private groups featured around special interests. i ended up doing the same with reddit & a private sub before leaving, i enjoy recognizing usernames.

all this to say: agreed

yes please i really want even more of my already-overpopulated living space consumed by redundant concrete and metal, sounds great!

female UK for me iirc

my heart hurts for your self-esteem, brother

the more i learn to code the less opposition i feel to being called a furry even tho i wouldn’t call myself one at this time lmfao

I didn’t get my audhd dx until i was 28 but i feel like i always knew, and i think my life might’ve been sightly less miserable in general if id just allowed myself to accept a self-diagnosis. the attitude of “you just want to be special” seriously fucked me up lmfao.

BoJack Horseman, too many times to count by now

ah i was struggling to come up with an answer, but it’s probably still WoW for me too. solidarity, friend

I also don’t know Star Trek lore but it is basically the answer used in The Orville (“matter synthesis”), which I do know is a love letter to Star Trek in general

I thought I was just lazy most of my life because I could never wrap my head around how people just do things without getting overwhelmed by 500 things in their head about it first lmfao. Showering is a good example, I’m sure most people find them relaxing and/or do them on autopilot but to me it feels like an elaborate process

ideally id be using signal but hardly anyone is willing to use it because most people don’t care. between sms & something owned by meta, for example, im not entirely sure which is less bad

ive had this discussion with a few different people actually, and at least from where im standing, it does seem like sms is making a comeback. i have to admit i prefer it when it comes to messaging people i know irl

i have a soft leather keychain that i clip to whatever bag i’m using, it’s not overly fidgety but it is a pleasant sensation

as someone who is queer i actually think the comparison is pretty apt, sounds like she doesn’t understand your experiences. i’m sorry you had to go through this

honestly i had myself convinced my behaviour was “just social anxiety” for a looong time, so yeah

definitely both depending on the context