This is a big part of why I don’t fly anymore if I can avoid it. Every time I’ve flown since transitioning, I’ve been patted down, either because of my bra (where they usually have me lift my arms and pat my sides) or my genitals (where they pat my inner leg). Which one seems to be entirely based on how they gender me.

I also often got the awkward “would you like a man or a woman to pat you down?” Which is super cool cause like, you’re asking me if I want a dude grabbing my thigh, or I wanna ask a female agent to do it and hope she’s not gonna be weird about touching trans people. It’s cool - not like there’s a whole transphobic narrative around trans women imposing themselves on uncomfortable cis women~

Fuck planes. Train gang.