Original post here: https://hexbear.net/post/3856299?scrollToComments=false

I think we have a general path forward based on community feedback. “We see you, we hear you!”

I went ahead and unpinned the old post. I’m pinning this one for now and will edit this post when I wake up from eepy time. I had a very mid week and have no particular alarm set so be on look out. Love y’all and I’m amped for my first announcement post since coming back. :)

  • Kuori [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
    16·
    1 month ago

    alright, i’ll play along.

    i think the way you’ve comported yourself in general during this event positively reeks of disdain: for the userbase, their interests and desires, and for the effort they have expended trying to communicate such with you.*

    you should be able to understand that replying to long, considered posts with terse statements of dismissal and apparent disinterest is, if nothing else, deeply rude behavior. it’s the equivalent of responding to someone’s impassioned monologue with “okay”. at best they will feel stupid for trying to talk to you at all. it’s flatly not the sort of behavior you extend towards someone you respect on any level.

    *i know this isn’t equivalent to the effort of upkeeping and running the site. i am keeping that in mind during this critique.

      • Kuori [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
        9·
        1 month ago

        lmao i genuinely cannot tell if this is an example of the behavior i discussed or if it’s just an amusing coincidence but i will take it in good faith and offer some advice in kind: if you feel that your time here has embittered you towards the userbase, the site culture, or your duties as a moderator, i really do think you should give consideration to either taking a break from moderating or the site as a whole. i say this with no hostility. you folks put in a lot of labor to keep the site usable and we all appreciate that. and the key word there really is labor. i’m sure monitoring the community that is simultaneously the most active and the most likely to contain deeply emotionally damaging/draining rhetoric is not easy, to say nothing of the drama it stirs up with the other, lesser instances.

        you should not be spending your limited free time in this life doing something that you hate.