Oh no, my miserable life that’s devoid of any connection and anyone altogether otherwise *at least contains a friend.

What the fuck man, is this a real concern average people have that I’m way too fucking alienated to understand

  • Zezzy [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
    5·
    1 year ago

    It’s better to just say “hey I like you in a more romantic way and even though you want to be friends, perhaps it’s better that we don’t hang out.”

    I guess I don’t have any experience from the"friendzoned" side, but this feels kinda manipulative? You’re basically giving them them an ultimatum to date you or cut off contact. I might just be sensitive or have completely different kind of relationship with my friends, but this would definitely burn bridges.

    • christiansocialist [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
      4·
      1 year ago

      but this would definitely burn bridges.

      I guess I should clarified that this is more of something you’d say in the beginning, not too long after meeting someone.

      You’re basically giving them them an ultimatum to date you or cut off contact.

      I mean I see it more as you know who you are and are setting boundaries for yourself. If the other person insists on being friends while knowing that you are into them, I see that as kind of manipulative, because you’re kind of pressuring the person with the feelings to make a decision to stay in an awkward situation.