No one ever reads or watches what I recommend (that’s a lie, one person does). I usually don’t expect others to engage with my interests, I wouldn’t hold a grudge if they don’t. But it upsets me when this occurs in the event of exchanging recommendations with someone who ends up not reciprocating. This has happened on four separate occasions with different people. While I’d actually read the book, give my opinion and genuinely engage with them, they would postpone doing so and constantly make excuses until they think I’ve forgotten. One time I made a promise with a friend to watch a series of their choice and vice versa, guess who did and who didn’t (“My internet connection is so bad” you’re literally watching other shows as we speak…)
This begs the question: are my recommendations this bad? I’d like to put that to the test. Here are the recommendations in question:
- Avatar: The Last Airbender
- The Tatami Galaxy
- Parasite
- Azazeel by Youssef Ziedan
Nah this shit is super common, I’ve had plenty of people online and in real life do this with video games, movies, etc.
People know their own tastes, and with the amount of media available they probably already have a backlog of their own things.
Like, not to slam anybody who hasn’t seen Parasite, but the type of person to really like it has probably already at least heard of it, if not seen it.