I’m fine with “autist” tbh and describe myself as such. I’ve gone so far as to call some of my behavior when I know I should mask and don’t for tactical reasons “weaponized autism”. Honestly one thing that a lot of NTs don’t understand is that some of us like that our neural patterns are autistic. I don’t want to be NT, I like myself, I like how I think. Is it annoying that I get sensory issues? Sure, but I don’t want to trade for the “benefits” of being an NT.
I’m also a Jew. People have used “Jew” as a slur before as well. Did getting hung up on saying “Jewish” or “person of Judaism” ever help prevent the Holocaust ? Did it help Jews get into a college other than Tulane before 1964? Whether someone respects you as a person isn’t going to be changed through their language. They’re just lying.
You can hate me, I can’t change that. But make it easy on me and don’t lie about it, I have a hard time with social cues. I prefer self describing as “autist” and it being a “bad word” for NTs. It makes it very clear not only who is autistic but how an NT feels about you as an autistic person. For others I typically use autistic because I know some autistic people don’t like autist and it helps create that signal that’s gonna make it easier for me to tell who to stay away from.
RFK’s bullshit is very closely tied to the ideology of orgs that pretend to be focused on the needs of autistic people but actually and actively cater to caregivers of autistic people and their inherent ideology of “I have been saddled with this annoying child and someone needs to fix it.” These orgs such as Autism (Caregivers) Speak are already genocidal in their talking points about autism, RFK is mainly catering to these people who believe we’re broken and taking their ideas to their logical conclusions that we should not exist in our current mental states.
I’m fine with “autist” tbh and describe myself as such. I’ve gone so far as to call some of my behavior when I know I should mask and don’t for tactical reasons “weaponized autism”. Honestly one thing that a lot of NTs don’t understand is that some of us like that our neural patterns are autistic. I don’t want to be NT, I like myself, I like how I think. Is it annoying that I get sensory issues? Sure, but I don’t want to trade for the “benefits” of being an NT.
I’m also a Jew. People have used “Jew” as a slur before as well. Did getting hung up on saying “Jewish” or “person of Judaism” ever help prevent the Holocaust ? Did it help Jews get into a college other than Tulane before 1964? Whether someone respects you as a person isn’t going to be changed through their language. They’re just lying.
You can hate me, I can’t change that. But make it easy on me and don’t lie about it, I have a hard time with social cues. I prefer self describing as “autist” and it being a “bad word” for NTs. It makes it very clear not only who is autistic but how an NT feels about you as an autistic person. For others I typically use autistic because I know some autistic people don’t like autist and it helps create that signal that’s gonna make it easier for me to tell who to stay away from.
RFK’s bullshit is very closely tied to the ideology of orgs that pretend to be focused on the needs of autistic people but actually and actively cater to caregivers of autistic people and their inherent ideology of “I have been saddled with this annoying child and someone needs to fix it.” These orgs such as Autism (Caregivers) Speak are already genocidal in their talking points about autism, RFK is mainly catering to these people who believe we’re broken and taking their ideas to their logical conclusions that we should not exist in our current mental states.