I suggest you take a step back. There are criticisms to be made about the pride movement and the role cis men have played in it just like there’s a way to criticize feminism’s centering of whiteness, but airing out (unarticulated) grievances on someone’s obituary is really pretty vile.
Kind of a weird take-away from a post about a cis gay guy having his house burned down and then being murdered in front of his husband
Another comment said his husband was trans masc
Okay, and…???
I suggest you take a step back. There are criticisms to be made about the pride movement and the role cis men have played in it just like there’s a way to criticize feminism’s centering of whiteness, but airing out (unarticulated) grievances on someone’s obituary is really pretty vile.