so ‘alina’ and ‘liam’ are both people i’m interested in. as it turns out, they both like me too. alina has been my friend for a year and liam, two years.
alina is a good artist and she’s always making stuff for me and drawing stuff for me. liam is always complimenting me when we talk. liam is the cute nerdy type while alina is like the pretty artist.
both of them have confessed to me and i like both of them, and each know about my crush. what the heck do i do!???
how do i choose a boyfriend or girlfriend???
you should try dating them both 👍
Is a polycule an option?
Why not date them both?
Be up front about it of course, but you can’t judge a romantic relationship as you would a platonic one, they aren’t equal. So date.
Going on some dates is not a super serious thing. But seriously, tell them both that you’d like to go on dates with both and see what works out, and be up front and honest.
thanks :))
See if they’re interested in being a thruple and possibly live the ultimate bi fantasy?
Do they know about each other?
Yep!
Well then… there is no problem here.
Continue developing relationships with both of them while maintaining open and honest communication. Talk about boundaries and expectations. If one of them gives you an ultimatum over choosing, choose the other.
Pick the pretty artist. Cute nerdy men are plentiful they’re easy to get.
