• lightnsfw@reddthat.com
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    1 year ago

    I’m straight and I don’t find dudes attractive. I assumed it worked the same way for gay people. My bad I guess.

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      1 year ago

      But I hope, even if you’re straight, you don’t necessarily find dudes repulsive either. I have straight friends and they are well adjusted enough to be able to look at another guy and say, “now that’s a good looking guy” - or, “I wish I looked that that.” After all, if guys are universally repulsive, why would any woman ever want to be with one.

      In the same way even though I’m gay, I certainly don’t find women unattractive. Don’t most guys think that boobies are amazing? I still do - and I am talking about female ones here not male ones. I see why guys would enjoy wrapping their hands around that.

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        1 year ago

        I never said repulsive. I said not attractive. As in “I am not attracted to them”. I suppose I could acknowledge that a dude is probably attractive based off what I think the general consensus on what people find attractive in men is but I don’t actually feel anything towards them one way or the other so they’re not attractive to me.