• Lemminary@lemmy.world
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    It’s probably an instinct or a reflex. I’ve noticed my cats consistently start grooming themselves when I pet them and it’s as if they can’t help themselves if I keep doing it a certain way.

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    “Of course I get offended when I’m on my way to rest on my favorite blankie and the greasy primate decides to molest me with their greasy primate paws, which is why I make it a point to make them watch while I clean the defiled part of my body. But do they ever learn? NO!

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    That’s what tou get for not asking permission to touch first. Always squat, extend a hand, and let them sniff and approve first! Consent matters =_=

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    No, if my wife touches my hair I have to fix it. It feels wrong otherwise.

    They’re doing the same thing.

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    This is actually the cat being interested and curious as to who touched them, not a sign of rejection. If a cat doesn’t want to get touched, you won’t touch it.

  • sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz
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    On one hand, how dare you reject my love. On the other, well if you didn’t sometimes then you wouldn’t be a cat. See you 'round, gato

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    Hey it could be worse - if you touch me I get the shivers of disgust, very visibly. I still feel kinda sorry for that random person who accidentally slightly brushed my arm when they sat next to me in the train years ago