Fuck you antisemites.

  • PKMKII [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
    51·
    8 天前

    I know it’s a minor side detail in all that, and there’s a good chance this is a bit, but there’s something kind of endearing about a dude worried their sexual tastes are too weird because they like latinas that use lip plumpers.

  • Robert_Kennedy_Jr [xe/xem, xey/xem]@hexbear.netEnglish
    48·
    8 天前

    Was some post here about how step sister etc is so popular now because so many young adults are still living with family, so the most conceivable fantasy where they could get laid is with someone who is already living there.

  • the_robot_from_planet_danger [comrade/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
    331·
    8 天前

    I first learned about the “porn is a jewish plot” theory from the r white goose discord leaked pics lol

    i remember him specifically complaining that the jews were using porn to normalize “cancer-causing” anal sex

  • LaughingLion [any, any]@hexbear.netEnglish
    30·
    8 天前

    a long time ago i was reading a discussion where someone who worked in the industry said that for a lot of videos its basically some rich dude with a fetish that just pays to have a bunch of movies or scenes created, because if you have tens of millions then its nothing to drop a like 100 grand to create loads of scenes and pay the actresses you are into or whatever to make them. plus you are investing in the production so its likely you make a bunch of it back. and they said that there were like two dudes who were super into incest shit and just churned it out in the early 00s and then it just was everywhere. and then it became something in demand for whatever societal reasons. and now its here to stay for a while

    so now whenever there is a “this is the new hot fetish” and its getting churned out by one studio or whatever its probably some situation like that and then the copycats want that foot/piss/cosplay/whatever money so they chase it, too

          • CloutAtlas [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
            12·
            8 天前

            That’s a more modern, legal use of the word. Traditionally, incest doesn’t necessarily require blood relation.

            For example, in Shakespeare’s Hamlet, we find “o wicked speed, to post with such dexterity to incestuous sheets”.

            This is in reference to his mother (Gertrude) sleeping with her deceased husband’s brother Claudius. Marrying your deceased spouse’s sibling (doing a Biden, in today’s words) was considered incest despite no blood relations whatsoever since at least the Elizabethan era.

            • Le_Wokisme [they/them, undecided]@hexbear.netEnglish
              9·
              8 天前

              This is in reference to his mother (Gertrude) sleeping with her deceased husband’s brother Claudius. Marrying your deceased spouse’s sibling (doing a Biden, in today’s words) was considered incest despite no blood relations whatsoever since at least the Elizabethan era.

              in contrast to Onan failing to knock up his brother’s widow.

    • agentant [any]@hexbear.netEnglish
      1·
      5 天前

      My issue is that it’s always half-assed. It should have a good story, and if you can’t do that, don’t insult my tastes by having none at all.

    • BeanisBrain [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
      32·
      8 天前

      Look sometimes the sex is just hotter when you take time to establish the stakes. It’s like how action scenes are more exciting when you know why the characters are trying to kill each other.

      • Are_Euclidding_Me [e/em/eir]@hexbear.netEnglish
        22·
        8 天前

        Please please please be more careful with your language around trans people! I get that you’re trying to speak sensitively and you’re sharing your (rather relevant) personal experience about the types of porn trans people like, but holy shit your use of the terms “AMAB” and “AFAB” are so, so bad in these comments of yours.

        For one thing, you don’t even mean AMAB when you say AMAB, because you go on to clarify that you’re well aware that trans women (almost all of whom would have been assigned male at birth) tend to love written erotica with decent plots, which you’ve claimed is more often enjoyed by “AFABs”! So here you actually seem to mean “women prefer erotica with plot, men prefer straightforward visual porn”, which is not at all what you said.

        Then your next comment below seems to be comparing trans and cis men, so just say that! Don’t bring in language about people’s assigned gender at birth if you don’t need to!

        In fact, more generally, for anyone reading this, please remove the terms “AFAB” and “AMAB” from your vocabulary. There are vanishingly few times when using these terms is acceptable. Most of the time it’s just transphobia.

      • 389aaa [it/its]@hexbear.netEnglish
        14·
        8 天前

        I need to contest your idea regarding there being different porn preferences based on assigned gender at birth.

        Beyond the fact that I don’t know what the mechanism would be for that, given ones assigned sex/gender is something social, not biological, I can tell you from experience that porn with plot and written erotica is EXTREMELY popular in Transfem spaces. Like, overwhelmingly, in addition to a general preference for drawn/animated pornography instead of live action stuff.

        • OutrageousHairdo [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
          1·
          8 天前

          Yeah, that’s been my experience too actually. I do write for a lot of trans people personally (probably at least half of my stuff LOL) and that very much aligns with my experiences, I was just using imprecise language a bit there. I get specifically commissioned to write stuff for individuals, and from that perspective I feel like I have definitely noticed a gap between the tastes of specifically cis men and non-cis men who I have worked for, to a degree where, while I can’t imagine there’s one single neat explanation behind it, I feel like it can’t just be down to culture. I probably chose to phrase it that way specifically because the AFAB people I know just mention that it takes a lot longer to, you know, pleasure themselves, and I figure the process taking longer and being more finnicky and difficult is probably one of several contributors to these different consumption patterns. Also, wasn’t really speaking about live action vs. animation at all in that regard, I think that’s kind of an orthogonal discussion. Plenty of drawn and animated stuff still fits into that “immediate, visual-focused gratification” category just as neatly as filmed pornography.

          • SerialExperimentsGay [she/her, she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
            19·
            8 天前

            I was just using imprecise language a bit there

            Yeah i unfortunately have to elaborate on this because it has become such a common mistake that i see being made all the time.

            Please do not ever use AFAB and AMAB to refer to people. Nobody is “an AMAB person”, let’s just spell it out to see what happens: “an assigned male at birth person” obviously is not a correct English term, whereas “a person who was assigned male at birth” is. But saying “an AMAB person” or “AFAB only housing” (another transphobia classic) does not produce a grammatically correct phrase when you spell out the acronym.

            That is because you, like almost everybody else, are misappropriating the term. Intersex people came up with these terms to specifically refer to a process, not a person: the process of using anatomy-based heuristics to sex people after birth. That’s the one thing AMAB and AFAB were designed to reference, and it’s the only thing it does right reliably, which means it has extremely limited uses.

            Out of all gender-related terms, AMAB and AFAB are probably the least versatille and most specific. In this case, it’s better to just say “women”, as you have noticed by yourself at this point. It’s ok to just subsume trans women under women in almost any case, as we are, in fact, women and want to be recognized as such. I can not only live with being lumped in with cis women, in more than 90% of all cases it is precisely what i want. There are obviously exceptions that usually appear either in medical contexts or when we specifically talk about trans experiences, or when it is necessary to also include other gender variant groups.

          • Are_Euclidding_Me [e/em/eir]@hexbear.netEnglish
            15·
            8 天前

            I figure the process taking longer and being more finnicky and difficult

            This isn’t true. More precisely, it varies so much from person to person that any generalizations here are useless.

            I’m transmasc and it doesn’t take me any longer (on average) to cum than it takes my partner, who is a cis man. When I was in college talking to my (female) friend about her and her boyfriend’s sex life, her continual complaint was that it took him forever to cum. She could cum quick and easy, but he took forever.

            So I don’t have any data here (if anyone does, please share!), but every bit of anecdotal evidence from my life is that it’s a myth that people with dicks cum quicker than people with pussies. It varies hugely from person to person.

            So any difference in porn habits between trans and cis men seems, to me, like it would stem from the way we are treated by society than anything to do with anatomy.

        • OutrageousHairdo [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
          6·
          8 天前

          They exist and always have. It’s just that we’ve moved to a platform model and most of our porn sites are more like the YouTube of smut than the Netflix. You can absolutely find stuff with actual cinematography and special FX, including in modern resolutions, but the market clearly favors an influencer approach in getting people to pay for individual media than a hollywood approach.

          Also to be clear most of the money in those big budget productions is just finding ways to make the actors look all greasy and shiny like that one picture of the peppers. Not money wasted, but you aren’t going to get Shakespeare by renting some studio lights and hiring half a dozen CGI artists.

            • BeanisBrain [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
              11·
              8 天前

              One of my favorite pieces is an M/M short story about two men having sex in a sleeping car on a train. They recently became partners and they’re taking their first vacation together. The trip and the act itself are a celebration of what they consider to be the true beginning of their life together. The author did a great job of portraying their love for each other and hopes for the future and it made the story vastly more enjoyable than it would’ve been otherwise to me.

            • OutrageousHairdo [he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
              6·
              8 天前

              I’m sure some of the anime stuff approaches that, and there are some genuinely startlingly good offerings I’ve seen firsthand in the indie porn game scene (Monster Mind comes to mind, it’s like a based and queer version of Huniepop with anthro Pokemon), but searching for any needles in that haystack is such a process. One of the less talked about problems with online porn is that it’s impossible to Google anything or discuss compared to normal media because you’re worried you’ll faceplant into porn about SA or some kind of trojan that steals your credit card. You pretty much have to get recommendations on the normal Internet from people you actually know and trust, it’s a lot harder to do any searching yourself. I definitely think that is one aspect where our current porn environment is specifically worse than before, it’s a lot less safe to go looking for stuff.

  • Formerlyfarman [none/use name]@hexbear.netEnglish
    7·
    7 天前

    Back in the day porn used to be more comunal, I would get together at a friend’s house, and we would critique each other’s choices of porn, we would say, “man, even you porn is weird” or “you are such a fancy lad even your porn is fancy”.