feeling really confused when people asked if i was gay, because no of course not i like girls, but also a part of me being like yes because i like girls…
“Definitely not gay, im only attracted to women! But man it would so awesome to be a lesbian…”
—Me
almost every girl i had a crush on in high school turned out to be gay, which at the time was pretty annoying but now i realize i just had a type
Got bullied for being gay, overweight and not being “manly” in so many ways.
Now as an out trans lesbian I instead deal with gay and straight men hitting on me, get hated on by my fat fam for being “too skinny” and people will go out of their way to call me something masculine.
Other people always sucked, at least I like me and the people I keep close are more genuine too.
I don’t think anybody likes public toilets
They’re good for drugs
fecking facial hair, who came up with that!? (I mean on others than me it looks nice but on me? No it sucks, I want to rip it off!)
What’s the problem with the hairdressers?
Aside from the obvious dysphoria related to hair length and gender perceptions (if you’re a transfem egg, being expected to have your hair cut short, or if transmasc, being expected to keep it long), going to the hairdressers/barbers is an intensely gendered experience overall. Being perceived as a man results in wildly different treatment compared to being perceived as a woman in that environment, both in how your hair/head are physically treated/handled and in the social aspect of expected small talk/chatter. Many eggs and closeted trans folks find it an unbearable experience as a result.
