but yapping is how i bond with people 🥺
applebusch (she/her)
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applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•cuddling with my fur babyEnglish
3·19 hours agoyou should! get two so they have a friend. thanks :3
applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•cuddling with my fur babyEnglish
2·1 day agohehe its one of my favorite parts of having a black cat. she fits my aesthetic so well :3
applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Autism@lemmy.world•What nerdy interests do you have atm?English
28·1 day agoive kinda felt guilt and shame about it for a long time, but sex has been a pretty consistent special interest of mine. ive been leaning into it unapologetically lately and have been happy to find people who arent put off by how into it i am, and even value my enthusiasm. its not nerdy in the traditional sense but theres so much to learn and improve at, and every partner has new and interesting depths to explore, so to speak. i even get to learn new things about myself in the process.
your brother is gonna love it on you almost as much as he loves it off you :3
applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
cats@lemmy.world•"We'll just get one" is the biggest lieEnglish
13·1 day agoi dont believe theres such a thing as enough cats. ones living situation may dictate that some amount is too much, but it always manages to fall far short of enough.
applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
The Shitpost Office@lemmy.dbzer0.com•I forgive you but I'm still going to be a bitch about itEnglish
221·1 day agoas an aspiring tomboy, i sure fucking hope so lol
applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
ADHD@lemmy.world•Werner Herzog: “I don’t like the term neurodivergence/ADHD/whatever — it sounds like political correctness”English
9·2 days agoits definitely real though. the way my brain responds to stimulants is completely different from how people without ADHD respond. often caffeine has no effect on my wakefulness at all, and usually makes me sleepy, unless i have a lot. and taking my prescribed stimulants makes me calm and focused where others would be euphoric and amped up. thats the most clear evidence that my brain literally functions differently, but theres also a mountain of other more subtle evidence.
wooow youre only exploiting people slightly less than you could be? color me impressed. and benefits day one? how generous of you not forcing people to wait for health care that they may require to continue living. like i said, fuck the company.
fuck the business. they want fair treatment they can provide fair compensation.
applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal@discuss.online•2009-01-27English
4·3 days agoi want that society to be real so bad. id join in a heartbeat.
applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
CoupleMemes@sh.itjust.works•Love is loveEnglish
13·3 days agoin fact it is! no one suffers when you eat pussy (consensually) ;3
applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg😯irlEnglish
33·3 days agobeing a lesbian is cool. so much better than being a straight guy.
applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•they are getting along at least~English
32·3 days ago¿porque no los dos?

vaccines are great and awesome and i wish there were more and i could get them. no one is being forced against their will to get vaccinated. people who refuse for nonmedical reasons are a danger to others, directly, not in some hypothetical society might be better off way. just like someone else who brought up smoking which also harms others directly. they should be barred from certain places for not getting them yeah. that doesnt violate their bodily autonomy. they can choose not to they just wont be able to do certain things or go certain places because they are a danger to others. you can choose to smoke you just wont be allowed to do it where you will hurt people.
this is such a false equivalence argument its painful. cigarette smoke materially harms others directly. subjecting someone to your cigarette smoke violates their bodily autonomy unless they consent to breathe your second hand smoke and take on the associated harms. someone committing suicide doesnt harm anyone directly. youre saying them dying is bad for the people in their life because they support them so they should be pressured to stay alive and be actively prevented from dying so they can continue to provide benefit to others.
thats literally the argument pro lifers use against abortion. women revoking their material support of their unborn child in most cases leads to its death, so they argue women should be forced to carry it to term, violating their bodily autonomy. youre arguing the same thing for people who want to die. their life benefits others who may die or be worse off without them so they should be compelled to continue existing against their will.
fuck that. anyone who argues that position is on the slippery slope to supporting slavery. you dont get to sacrifice peoples bodily autonomy because it might be good for fucking society. youre fucking wrong and nothing you can say will convince me such a callous position is right. people have the right to die if they choose to, and people like you make exercising that right worse for everyone.
thats a pretty naive perspective that ignores the reality of suicide. people are going to do it anyway, whatever you or anyone else thinks. removing options for people in that situation just worsens the harm to people around them and society as a whole, because no one is prepared and they can only do it in an inconvenient place/way. its always a surprise that people have to deal with suddenly, rather than something with established procedures and norms. your position is basically “they shouldnt because its hard messy so we’ll make it really hard and messy to disuade them”. its a circular argument that serves no one.
another example of capitalism/society causing harm and people ascribing that harm to the response rather than the system that pushed people to be desperate enough to be killed for money. but you know that already fucking happens. life insurance fraud is a thing. people take out huge life insurance plans then go find a way to die that looks like an accident to support someone else. but sure allowing people to consent to die would be the real problem.
i think the message there is society and capitalism are fucking evil. they put those people in those terrible situations and then took advantage of their desperation. obviously the answer is no, they were coerced by a callous system that took everything from them right up to the end.






yet you self censored? put your fucking money where your fucking mouth is. fuck.