applebusch (she/her)

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Cake day: November 11th, 2024

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  • hmm that might have been a better strategy than i used. my first cat isnt a biter but she was very liberal with her use of claws when i got her. she would have them out for anything from cuddles to playtime. i got her to be more careful around me by just playing up my pain response every time she got me with her claws. id jump and yelp like she really hurt me. she eventually learned but it would have been cool if she learned faster lol.



  • to add to what others have said, you really dont need to masturbate that much to maintain function, and you really only need to get an erection not do anything with it. im not sure why that frequency gets spread around so much. its like the world wants us to be hypersexual or something… once a week or so is enough in my experience. i havent had any shrinkage and there were a few times i went weeks without doing anything, during my libido dip.

    it will get harder to get and maintain enough of an erection to top whether you get enough erections to prevent shrinkage or not. its pretty easy to be prescribed tadalafil or something though, which is a huge help. i take 5mg of tadalafil every day to make maintenance easier. ill even wake up with an erection sometimes still, so i really dont even need to worry about deliberate maintenance erections.

    id say definitely continue with hrt. the changes are slow enough you will be kicking yourself later if you wait.





  • i think i remember seeing a presentation advocating for reintroduction that showed more people are killed during vehicle collisions with deer than would ever be killed by their predators. wolves and cougars tend to stay away from people, especially with boutiful deer to eat. if they kill a person its mostly people who are deliberately fucking with them. peoples fear of large predators is more due to paranoia and ignorance than real danger.