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Cake day: June 7th, 2023

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  • The oldest Gen X cohort is 60 years old now. we’re not holding on to anything past retirement age… yet.

    Note that there are many boomers who are poor and are working because they have no choice. Contrary to popular belief, most jobs were not that cushy over the last 50 to 60 years. pensions were steadily whacked, jobs were sent offshore. Maybe consider listening to the Billy Joel song called “Allentown”.

    Gen X is cynical and never believed they were going to get retirement anyway precisely because they watched what happened to the generation before them.


  • Someone else already got to it before me to show that ageism is really a thing. However, I still want to comment.

    The dirty little secret about unemployment statistics in the United States of America is that it only counts people who are considered searching for work.

    Searching for work means they’re receiving unemployment benefits. My benefits ran out six to eight months ago. I am not considered unemployed.

    Consistently, month after month, the percentage of the population that is in the workforce is decreasing. I believe that statistic is called the workforce participation rate. This is why the unemployment rate is so low. Everybody who can’t find a job and finally gives up drops off the list.

    I saw a figure that I can’t get the source for at the moment that states we have about a 14% rate of people who are unemployed who want to work.



  • I should probably try what the O.P. did as I also have an ASUS router with Merlin. However, in my case, I have a Synology NAS and I set up VPN on that and use that server as my VPN. I have a certificate-based sign-in through a single port on the router.

    I use a Public VPN service when I’m out and about and then connect to my VPN when I need to do stuff on my network, Like syncing my Joplin notes.




  • Always on although my Phone VPN recently has failed to start up automatically or has shut down randomly lately and I got to get that fixed.

    My reasons are just privacy. I’m not using it to get around regional restrictions. Additionally, it helps when I want to use a public Wi-Fi, especially if it doesn’t have any passports on it.

    I will not connect to public wifi without VPN.











  • Is not their primary mating criteria “provide for me”? Is not the expectation that the man pay for all the dates, and in particularly toxic cases, pay her rent, her nails, hair, etc.?

    Money is a requirement to be seen, therefore we need money to acquire a mate. There is a philosophical debate over whether that equates to prostitution. I’m not getting into that here.