• ouRKaoS@lemmy.today
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    3 days ago

    I usually just go with “this one”; been wrong so far but eventually I’ll get it right.

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    6 days ago

    Not really, but whenever a year in the future is mentioned, I do wonder if I’ll be around for it.

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      5 days ago

      Same here. I do the math to figure out my age that year, and think about the possibility of living that long. Also if I would want to live that long.

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    5 days ago

    My maternal grandmother lived to be 96. My paternal grandmother is still alive and will be 100 this year. Her mother, my great grandmother, lived to be 102. Both my parents are still alive and in decent health in their mid 70s. Baring any severe accidents, I feel like I’m going to live into my late 90s, which I’m not thrilled about. My soon to be 100 grandma has been ready to die for a decade. Her husband died in 1992. All her friends are dead. One of her children is dead. Some of the children of her friends are already dead. She is very healthy and lives comfortably with my aunt and uncle, but she’s lonely just the same, and I feel bad for her. Nothing much makes her happy anymore. I know people wish for a long, healthy life, but the idea of outliving everyone you love seems miserable.

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      5 days ago

      I wouldn’t worry about that. 20 years ago it was predicted by the “experts” that Miami would be under water a decade ago. Nothing has changed.

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        Not the real experts, but “experts”. Meanwhile projections by the real experts for lots of other things have been too conservative. But it’s okay, Miami isn’t quite underwater yet. Those king tides though…I wouldn’t live there at this point, the writing is on the wall.

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        5 days ago

        When I was a kid, they said entire California would end up in the sea within a few years, since it’s on a earthquake fault line.

        That was 1990. :)

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          Still don’t understand how people continue to “trust” the people who have a long history of predictions that never occurred. It always reminds me of a guy who pays to get “the special picks” for an NFL game. And for years the special picks guy hasn’t ever won a NFL bet

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            5 days ago

            People trust it because scientists make a model. They don’t think about that the model makes many assumptions and if any assumption is wrong, it fails.

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    On June 2, 2045, I’ll outlive my mother. My father is still alive and in pretty good health. I think I take after him, but I started smoking again recently. I’m tapering off pretty well though and I’m still relatively young.

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      That’s an interesting way of looking at it. In 2050 I’ll outlive my dad, but my mom is still alive. I never smoked but my dad did not die of cancer and my mom smoked like a chimney and is still alive.

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        My mom did die of cancer, but not lung cancer. They both quit when they were younger than I am, but each smoked much more in total than I have, so I think that’s a toss up. Smoking is basically my only unhealthy habit -I don’t even sit very much- but it’s a whopper of an unhealthy habit

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    Nope. I do however look around me and how other people died and I recognize that if I die at this point its not so young as to be a real shame. Im just at the age where its a little oh wow they died at only X but its not like oh man this person never had a chance at life. Im more scared of not dieing soon enough than of dieing soon. Living a long time in great health is great but living a long time in poor health fucking sucks. This is why diet and excersise is important. Its not about living longer, its about living healthier in the time you got.

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    I don’t worry about when, only hope and try to make sure things are in place enough so that those I leave behind are taken care of as best as I can. And I hope whenever it happens, it’s not some long, drawn out, painful event. Death is fine, the act of dying can suck.

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    Never thought about it that way before but maybe 2050, 2060, most likely somewhere in there.

    What I did think about the other day, though, was that mindfulness really extends your life, the more you pay attention to, the longer each day is, you are there for more of it.