“We need to sex up your wardrobe. What do you mean you’re not comfortable wearing that? Oh honey, don’t be such a prude, all the girls are doing it and you want to be successful don’t you? No one’s going to watch someone that dresses like their grandma.”
I get sick and tired of so called leftists equating exploitation to sexual liberation.
I think when it comes to critical comments the “can it be fixed in 10 seconds” rule is great.
Someone has something on their face? Tell them they can fix it.
They look tired? They can’t help that shut up.
I think a big part is trust of the person saying it. Plenty of people have appreciated it when I’ve notified them of a make-up gaff (that they were previously unaware of). (also I usually look slightly concerned for them)