Hmm… Should I get into dumb VR games like BeatSaber? I want to do something that feels like intense fighting. Biking fast enough it’s satisfying is too dangerous. Maybe unrealistic point based karate would be fun. I tried fencing once but it was shockingly lame. I’d join a dodgeball league but there aren’t any, everyone wants to do like baseball and volleyball. Hmmmm. I wonder if paintball would be fun or tedious, I could see it going either way.
How about a climbing gym? You’re fighting gravity and losing. It spikes my adrenaline more than most hikes and works out the entire body.
Oh yeah some spicy lead climbing can cause a flow state similar to what I’m looking for, with the increased adrenaline and body awareness. But instead of slow careful movements I want fast instinctive ones.
I forgot to mention racquetball as an example of the feeling. Probably the best thing I’ve found so far actually, and it’s safe, but I’m not in college anymore :(
racquetball
Guessing you’ve searched for squash courts? I only just learned racquetball and squash are “the same” (I’m guessing there’s differences.)
Wear a helmet
Then how will everyone see their nice undented skull?
I love that. Normalise helmet posting.
You can do martial arts without free sparring. You can take stage combat class. Still some risk of betting bonked but much less. You could do foil fencing, idk if it’s even possible to concuss someone with a foil. Same with shinai fencing, hard to concuss someone in a helmet with a bamboo stick. You could get a wooden or plastic sword and a shield, build a pell (training dummy) and practice on that. You could take up katana cutting, which is all about precise cutting and less sparring.you could check out hema and see how that feels. You could do archery. You could practice throwing knives until you get real good at it. You could take up airsoft. You could get a vr rig, there’s lots of vr combat games. You could take up any kind of dance. Dance is like 70% of the way to martial arts.
I saw you didn’t like fencing. You could check out medieval fencing with the sca or look in to boffer larps. Arrow tag is a thing in some lpaces.
Oh, if you have a vr rig there’s a totally bonkers game called Rumble. It’s earthbending: the vr game. It’s athletic for a vr game and you need to be really on your game in comp play.
There’s flag football. It really rewards good footwork and you probably won’t smack your head.q
oh shit that game looks cool
I present to you a solution:
Not finding a huge amount of consistency in the options you’re considering OP. Is it the adrenaline and the heart pumping you’re looking for? I suggest trying anything close and convenient and affordable to try out. I think all of these can go either the fun or tedious route depending on the day and other circumstances. Btw. You are highly unlikely to get concussed learning martial arts if you don’t compete. Maybe exceptions for hyper-masculine MMA and thai kickboxing joints.
Bout the most predictable is VR which is pretty reliable but I cannot in good conscience suggest it to a comrade in lieu of literally any other physical and/or social activity. Actually VR fishing with friends is fucking cool.
Personally I like riding an electric skateboard. With leathers, pads and a helmet. a- actually, I look cool as fuck and not at all lame.
I want the “aaah I’m about to die if I stop instantly instinctively reacting to what’s happening” feeling for like an uninterrupted minute at least. Eskateboards sound fun but too dangerous to go satisfyingly fast on.
Yeah I’m wracking my brain because I love flow state activities and I think I need to find one too. There’s a local indoor gel blaster field near me I’m thinking about again now. I feel like paintball has a better incentive to not get shot, but then it also feels like a slower game (outside of speedball.)
Concussions are a conspiracy by big helmet. They used Tony hawk to get us to fall for their lies. /joke
You’re looking for BJJ lol. Its entire appeal is a martial art that doesn’t require you to get hit in the head repeatedly. Wrestling for adults.
Seconding BJJ. I got into it in my late twenties and even though it’s kinda weird learning from a nineteen year old instructor you get over it pretty fast.
Go frogging
Instructions unclear I am now on a flatbed truck heading off the edge of the screen.
you know that 99% of martial arts is practicing the same punch 1000 times by yourself, not finding random dudes to throw punches with? There’s lots of intense fighting things you can do with only a punching bag. The risk is basically zero unless you try to 1v1 somebody.
also slow mountain biking is awesome.
The closest I’ve gotten to that feeling with something that’s a little less dangerous is kettlebell training. There’s a martial arts feel to some of the unique bell movements, like the snatch or the high pull, where you move your body explosively, but with precise form. Olympic lifting kind of does this, but it has nothing on kettlebells imo. Moving 62 lbs of iron around your forearms as you sling it through the air feels so cool once you’ve mastered it. If you haven’t tried them, I’d recommend it.
Certain kinds of paintball might be worth a try to get a feel for it. Most places are all about speedball because selling paintballs is a big part of the business model. Speedball is all about constant covering fire. I got bored of it eventually because it’s mostly about having 800+ ammo and a ridiculously high rate of fire. Then there’s brushball which is mostly stalking the woods in camo.
brushball
What’s brushball? cursory web search is returning… something else. Is it a paintball variant?
Ya, I played some pickup games with folks in the community over a decade ago in a smaller city. We would play out in the ‘brush’, just public land with lots of trees and foliage. There’s private paintball parks that have some of these kinds of spaces. Often they will also have a plywood fort and other ‘buildings’ for scenario play like CTF or escort the VIP, etc.
Ah yeah I think we just called that generic “skirmish” where I grew up. There was a great field for that near by, but the bursts of action could be pretty sporadic.
It can involve a lot of people camping for long periods which can get tedious. Having a round timer is usually a good idea. I used to have 3-4 friends that I would play with regularly, and we became fairly competent at some basic tactics. We even had some radios for coordinating eventually which was really fun.
Yeah if I hadn’t been so broke I probably would have enjoyed it more. The paint was extortionate haha.
I just had a little random memory of running out onto the field at the start of my very first match and getting nailed right in the eye of my goggles. Like instantly and thinking “Ahh, so that’s what war would be like.” heheh.
collect fossils instead
Bouldering and parkour.
bike on flat ground or one of them velodromes?
I want to be forced to react to stuff so quickly it forces flow state. Track biking is just normal exercise.
Ahh, see what you ened is a wooden sword and a fast-pitch baseball machine!
Sightread beatsaber maps?
or Pistol Whip with randomisers
Table tennis?
Ooh this is a good idea and it looks like there’s a club near me
Tangentially barely related but there’s an amazing anime called Ping Pong which is probably one of the best bits of fiction I’ve seen about the internal and external struggle of sport and competition. Might see if my partner wants to find a spot near here.
Martial arts are really fun and great exercise! They also do a really good job as a confidence boost towards other people.
I don’t know if it’s a thing or not, but I also notice that they tend to attract people with a sense of comradery, helping one another improve and work through mistakes.
