You can get nice libs but yeah politics or even just them trying to understand others they share a space with (I’m talking about cis mainly here) it soon becomes a minefield and it’s hard being around them with some of the takes and some of the questions you get… mainly people who are happy in their ignorance “because they’ve got theirs” kind of vibes… y’know…
My most recent mingling with libs went so badly I don’t think I’d ever do it again They soon go quiet when you point out their white fragility

But maybe you can re-educate a few of the nice trans libs, not everyone is close minded but it can be tiring, you have my sympathies.