Just happened hours ago

I was with my girlfriend walking back from the beach and when we crossed the cycle pathway the cyclist riding a fast sports bike cursed at my girlfriend and then stopped to get off and park the bike IN THE MIDDLE OF THE BIKEPATH and then started shouting at us saying “look where you’re going!” and kept swearing. I told the man “don’t be so silly and rude you’re making a big deal out of nothing bro…” but he got mad and then called my girlfriend bad names. I’m a very calm person so I don’t want to hit people but I was getting angry. He ride the bike away after cursing and my girlfriend was sad. We ended up having a nice dinner though so the evening wasn’t ruined and she has forgotten already I hope so…

Why are bikers so rude!

  • TheWolfOfSouthEnd@lemmygrad.ml
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    7 hours ago

    To be honest it sounds like you crossed in front of him and he could have hit you. Not how I’d have reacted if I’d been on the bike like.

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        6 hours ago

        If you’re crossing a cycle path at some random point then you have a duty of care to yourself to not cross someone else’s path. It’s common sense.

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          6 hours ago

          Pedestrian has right of way… cyclist shouldn’t be going so fast because they have the chance to hit someone… we could be injured right now and it would still be cyclist fault

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            4 hours ago

            I recommend not visiting Amsterdam.

            Not sure about other places, but a bike lane is for bikes. If you cross it, its your responsibility to check if you can cross, just like when crossing a road for cars outside of an official crossing (and I recommend being careful then as well).

            You were wrong, but the cyclist sounds like an asshole.

            Here’s a guide on being a pedestrian in the Netherlands: #6 - How to survive Dutch people on bikes - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CLurEnjOeMo

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            5 hours ago

            Pedestrians don’t always have the right of way. A cycle path is like a road for cyclists. No matter what speed a vehicle or bike is traveling at, there will be a minimum stopping distance. If you as a pedestrian just throw yourself in front of a bike or vehicle without thinking, then you are responsible. There is no speed they can travel at that someone couldn’t get hit if they just walk out directly in front of them. Hell, you as a pedestrian have a stopping distance. If you’re walking at normal speed and someone just jumps right out in front of you, you’re going to run into them.

            Was the cyclist traveling at a legal speed for that path? If so, then the liability is likely on the pedestrian. The cyclist needs to not be going so fast that they won’t hit someone up ahead of them using the path, whether walking or biking. That is something they can and should be reasonably prepared for. If there is a blind turn, they need to not be going so fast that they can hit someone around the bend. But that is a reasonable hazard that can be prepared for. Or if there is a marked crossing, cyclists also need to not be going so fast that they can’t stop in time for people crossing there. But on a straightaway, and someone just comes out of the brush at a random location, not looking, and throws themselves into your path? No, you have no liability there as a cyclist. That isn’t a hazard you can reasonably prepare for.

            You are basically arguing that it should be illegal for people to ride bike at all, as there is no minimum speed that you can avoid a collision if someone is just going to throw themselves out in front of you.

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            5 hours ago

            The only sort of pedestrians I dislike are drivers, since they seem to imagine a forcefield around them when they just walk out of blindspots and the like.

            You’re sounding like one of those types, tbh.