• TheDoctor [they/them]@hexbear.net
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    4 months ago
    CW me panicking about a cute comic posted to chapo chat dot gov

    I’m so scared of soupification. I like my life too much to give it all up. I’ve spent so long building it. I have a wife and kids. I feel like I’m destroying everything and it feels so selfish.

    • ashinadash [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      4 months ago

      It’s not selfish, you do not exist to serve anyone else or anything that you have built. If it’s not good for you the way things are, changing yourself is entirely valid. If the people or structures or whatever cannot handle you, that is their problem. People who truly care for you will see that you are doing what’s best for you.

      meow-hug