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Could be they’ve always treated you differently than they treat guys. Even before I realized I was trans, I realized the way my best friend treated me was clearly different than he treated pretty much all other guy friends. I don’t think he exactly treated me as he would if he thought of me as a girl, but like I’m not a girl either and there’s extra social pressures for het people to not be gay and such.
Definitely not this.
They’ve always known I was a weirdo tho. But distinctly a weird flavored guy.
None of them saw it coming, but, because I’ve always been weird, they were like, “yeah, okay, checks out”
I don’t think any of the people who seemed to be distinctly treat me as not a guy had any suspicion I wasn’t a guy. And my brother was quite doubtful when I came out despite wanting to believe.
Also my mom is sometimes treated socially somewhat like a guy even by people who knows she is a woman. Doesn’t mean they think she is a guy and I think most people would be surprised if she came out trans.