You don’t have to be mentally ill to be these things. Considering the type of people that rule our world

(epstein ) it seems that the most well adjusted people in our society are not only more than capable of being this, it seems like a requirement.

So I am no longer comfortable using the word psychopath (or any other “dark triad” nonsense) to describe these types of people. These people aren’t struggling to function with a mental illness, they’re of the exact mindset that thrives in our backwards society.

However I’m struggling to think of a suitable replacement word that carries with it the same “This is serial killer coded shit” vibe that calling someone a psychopath carries (and associating such a thing with psychopaths is ableist so I don’t want to use the word in that way anymore)

Calling them ghouls, fascists or nazis doesn’t carry the same weight. What kind of word bests describes the casual, dangerous heartlessness of people without throwing the mentally ill under the bus?

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    demon

    say it with as much disgust and venom as you can muster

    prob bonus points as the target is likely a christian supremacist

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      ie: “You relish in grinding up the poor for your own gain. You don’t even pretend it’s bad, you enjoy it, you think it’s normal. You’re a demon, there’s no two-ways about it, and one day you’ll get what you deserve”

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        borderline sephiroth posting here but fuck it, the bounds of liberal civility really do let these freaks off scot free for demonic shit and they aren’t scared enough

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          Edit: formatting

          I felt inspired to write a poem about this just now. Might be a bit rough around the edges.

          The Demonic Impulse

          With so-called holy furor
          They abolish your freedoms
          And relish in human suffering
          Your agonies are their lullabies

          The impulse exists within most of us
          The desire to see enemies laid low
          Put in their place
          For daring to resist ‘the obvious truth’

          It matters not which god you do it for
          It matters not which master you serve
          Or if you do it for no one at all

          It is the path of demons
          The path of cruelty
          The path of treachery

          When it becomes your agenda
          To mete out the absolute
          To define truth as your words alone
          And disagreement as treason

          When it becomes your right
          To punish the punished
          To torture the tortured
          To ridicule that which you do not understand

          To slide down the scale
          And let contempt consume you
          That they deserve your hatred
          For not being you

          It’s to plunge your humanity into the tarpit
          To wrest it by the neck and hold its face beneath the threshold
          To revel in the bubbles which rise to the surface
          And to spit on its weakness when the last one pops

          You pull it back up, lungs full of rot
          Flesh seared and melded with the impulse
          This is what you breathe now
          This is what you feel now
          This is what you are now

          Unfit for power
          Unfit for polite society
          You murdered the human within
          And joined the ranks of the Demons

          And so now we ask each other
          Huddled amidst ourselves
          What is to be done about the devils
          Who seek a thousand thrones sewn from our faces

          What is to be done
          When you try to act
          Like what you’ve done
          Is normal

          What is to be done
          When you continue trying to pretend you’re human
          When the stench of your dead, rotted soul
          Wafts in with every word you belch

          The vile contempt you hold
          For all that is living and good
          The very concept of goodness in your mind
          Has been unrecognizably disfigured

          Fuck you.

          We’ve given you a billion chances
          To keep your disgusting mouth closed
          Before we came to the foregone conclusion
          That you’ll get what’s coming to you

          One way or another

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        I’m tossing around an idea where the Great Satan is the Dragon spoken about in Revelations. Trump is the beast of the West (had a head injury, mouth flows with blasphemies, has power granted to him by the Dragon), and AI is the beast of the Earth (it’s literally made of minerals from the earth, it will make the world and all the people in it worship the first beast). The war being “waged against the saints” is actually the war waged against the Axis of Resistance, the fire he makes come down from heaven is air strikes, the miracles he deceives with are AI slop, the “Mark” is face ID if they don’t just lean into it and chip us.

        Turning the Evangelical obsession with Armageddon on its head. Rub it in their fucking faces. 10He that leads into captivity shall go into captivity: he that kills with the sword must be killed with the sword. Here is the patience and the faith of the saints.

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          Whenever I heard that all of god’s chosen would ascend unto heaven I assumed that meant they were all killed.

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    Related, but I’d also like a punchy non-ableist word for someone who is just monumentally and deliberately ignorant. Like, whatever the fuck Matt Yglesias is.

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      Early in the genocide i called “israelis” inhuman and my partner got in an hours long argument with me that their actions are actually very human and how dehumanizing people is bad even if they’re the worst people alive. I wonder what she thinks now though.

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        I don’t believe dehumanizing people is bad from some moral standpoint, or is somehow inherently ‘fascistic’, but I believe it clouds our analysis. These monsters are human. That’s material reality. Humanity isn’t some pure superior condition that only some human beings obtain. Systematic forces make fellow humans act like this. And make no mistake, this is not a call for mercy, nor misanthropic. It’s a rejection of the mainstream moral that all human life is unconditionally valuable, and the lazy coping mechanism of dehumanization that arises when we want to justify the removal of “human rights” from a human. IDF soldiers are people, and because of their social role, it’s important to kill them.

        This clip from a documentary on the '43 Group (starting 17:19) makes an important, related remark about how delusion shapes action:

        The fascists were victim of their own propaganda. For years, they’d created this image of the Jew as the little shopkeeper, the little tailor. They hadn’t reckoned on the Jewish ex-servicemen […], they didn’t recognize these people as Jews. And suddenly they came up against these guys, they never knew what hit them. They couldn’t change their point of focus. These weren’t the Jews they had in mind.

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    I think insults tend to have that ableist skew, turns of phrase however (eg ‘they ain’t seeing heaven’) can be evocative without the ableist connotations imo.

    Describing someone’s actions nakedly (such as: murderous, manipulative, incurious, gullible, cowardly and so on) feel more appropriate and truthful than the ‘innate’ descriptors like the ones you said you want to get away from (which I think is where the ableism is rooted in)

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    I agree with the other commenters who say phrases are better.

    With single words, for it to have punch it has to be uncommonly used like a slur or a “smart” word.

    Slurs aren’t an option for obvious reasons and most “smart words” fall short because no one knows what they mean (the exception are words like “ingrate” which vaguely sound like a slur but are actually just “smart words”).

    Even with phrases, it can be tricky. Quips like “fatherless behavior” are funny even amongst those with a dad sized hole in their heart- but you risk hurting people all the same.

    One thing that works for me is to make uncomfortable comparisons:

    • My contemporary that watches mass shooting videos a little too often isn’t “evil”, he’s entertained by cannibalism.
    • Your coworker isn’t a pedo for liking loli, they’re someone with an “Epstein-like fascination for little girls”.

    Being laughed at ostensibly can be worse than being called any slur, I like the above examples because they have a pretty good chance of igniting laughter in a group setting. Getting other people in the room to clown on your target is a quick way to shut them down. And the pain of social ostracization is one that lingers for a long time.

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    I keep coming back to Fanon’s observation, that the colonial situation dehumanizes the colonizer. They’re ontologically evil, at the core of their being they are creatures that have made themselves inhuman so that they can benefit from colonization and imperialism.

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      Isn’t the quote you’re thinking of from Césaire’s Discourse on Colonialism, not Fanon?

      They prove that colonization, I repeat, dehumanizes even the most civilized man; that colonial activity, colonial enterprise, colonial conquest, which is based on contempt for the native and justified by that contempt, inevitably tends to change him who undertakes it; that the colonizer, who in order to ease his conscience gets into the habit of seeing the other man as an animal accustoms himself to treating him like an animal, and tends objectively to transform himself into an animal. It is this result, this boomerang effect of colonization that I wanted to point out.

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        Yeah, I probably got some wires crossed, but Fanon also talks about this in The Wretched of the Earth:

        National liberation, national reawakening, restoration of the nation to the people or Commonwealth, whatever the name used, whatever the latest expression, decolonization is always a violent event. At whatever level we study it— individual encounters, a change of name for a sports club, the guest list at a cocktail party, members of a police force or the board of directors of a state or private bank — decolonization is quite simply the substitution of one “species” of mankind by another. The substitution is unconditional, absolute, total, and seamless.

        We could go on to portray the rise of a new nation, the establishment of a new state, its diplomatic relations and its economic and political orientation. But instead we have decided to describe the kind of tabula rasa which from the outset defines any decolonization. What is singularly important is that it starts from the very first day with the basic claims of the colonized. In actual fact, proof of success lies in a social fabric that has been changed inside out. This change is extraordinarily important because it is desired, clamored for, and demanded. The need for this change exists in a raw, repressed, and reckless state in the lives and consciousness of colonized men and women. But the eventuality of such a change is also experienced as a terrifying future in the consciousness of another “species” of men and women: the colons, the colonists.

        But, these two “species” aren’t immutable:

        The people who in the early days of the struggle had adopted the primitive Manichaeanism of the colonizer—Black versus White, Arab versus Infidel —realize en route that some blacks can be whiter than the whites, and that the prospect of a national flag or independence does not automatically result in certain segments of the population giving up their privileges and their interests. The people realize that there are indigenous elements in their midst who, far from being at loose ends, seem to take advantage of the war to better their material situation and reinforce their burgeoning power. These profiteering elements realize considerable gains from the war at the expense of the people who, as always, are prepared to sacrifice everything and soak the national soil with their blood. The militant who confronts the colonialist war machine with his rudimentary resources realizes that while he is demolishing colonial oppression he is indirectly building another system of exploitation. Such a discovery is galling, painful, and sickening. It was once all so simple with the bad on one side and the good on the other.

        The idyllic, unreal clarity of the early days is replaced by a penumbra which dislocates the consciousness. The people discover that the iniquitous phenomenon of exploitation can assume a black or Arab face. They cry treason, but in fact the treason is not national but social, and they need to be taught to cry thief. On their arduous path to rationality the people must also learn to give up their simplistic perception of the oppressor. The species is splitting up before their very eyes. They realize that certain colonists do not succumb to the ambient climate of criminal hysteria and remain apart from the rest of their species. Such men, who were automatically relegated to the monolithic bloc of the foreign presence, condemn the colonial war. The scandal really erupts when pioneers of the species change sides, go “native,” and volunteer to undergo suffering, torture, and death.

        These examples defuse the overall hatred which the colonized feel toward the foreign settlers. The colonized welcome these men with open arms and in an excess of emotion tend to place absolute confidence in them. In the metropolis, stereotyped as the wicked, bloodthirsty stepmother, numerous and sometimes prominent voices take a stand, condemn unreservedly their government’s policy of war and urge that the national will of the colonized finally be taken into consideration. Soldiers desert the colonialist ranks, others explicitly refuse to fight against a people’s freedom, are jailed and suffer for the sake of the people’s right to independence and the management of their own affairs.

        Decolonization effectively dissolves the two species, making them into a single humanity again.

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      Reading Fanon has been something I wanted to do for a while now (I can’t read much due to a brain injury) but this is compelling me more, that is an excellent analysis

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    “Satans” or “shayateen” is where my own inner monolog tends to go. Or sometimes I’ll say “shaitans” or even the double plural “shayateens”. I also sometimes call those types of people KESS-kə-SAYZ (spelling varies) in my inner monolog, but given that that’s a reference to the song “Psycho Killer” maybe it inherits ableist baggage from that song? Not that I’d expect anyone but myself to use such a term, anyways.

    Edit: “Alex DeLarge types” or “droogs” are some more terms I use.

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        Learn to put appropriate level of disgust into your speech, skill issue shrug-outta-hecks

        People think them childish, but that’s because murican nuance brain, they are perfectly legible words

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            Depends like if you are trying to hurt someone in front of you (then truth works better anyway), behind the screen (unknowable 50% chatbot, who doesn’t care about words), gossiping about third person (legibility is important again) or third person on social media (being nicer there is more of a plus i think), only one on one i can see some value in being inventive

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    I feel like any derogatory term for someone who should be shunned and made to feel lesser that doesnt have racist or exist connotations has been used as an ableist insult cause that’s what people has left. So while some may feel this way, I do try to avoid terms where the literal meaning is ableist. I call these people freaks very often, etymologically a freak is an overly capricious person, which later led to it being used to describe a capriciously obsessive person and then broadened into a term for a hateful circus act. The adjective Disgusting gets passed around alot in my speech, I feel it fits the bill.nicely. I use monsters and ghouls a lot cause the bill fits. They arent hot enough to be demons. I don’t think Butcher gets thrown around enough. I generally make it up kn the spot to suite whichever loathsome fuck i have the the displeasure of being aware of. Loathsome fuck was on the spot for example. When seeing how much impact a word has, try it out loud. Be poetic. Or anti poetic, ‘loathsome fuck’ is a decent example. It sounds like a star wars alien name, and those all sound like slurs. Do a 5 dollar word followed by a really childish insult and you’ve got the best combo generally. Just don’t go 2010s reddit and call people Incandescent Dunderheads. Informative adjective followed by a swear word. Ricky from trailer park boys herd it right. Just call someone what they are doing followed by Dick. Security guy bothering you? Security dick, sometimes describing the kind of dick someone is tskes a paragraph but the summary can hurt.

    Geek seems to get under people’s skin in a weird way. Same with weenie

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    I thought maybe sociopath, but looking it up I find it IS a medical condition.

    Unfortunately culturally the words that resonate with the most power are ableist. You don’t find the other words to generate the same feeling because we’ve culturally turned people’s ailments into our regularly used pejoratives; other words that aren’t ableist don’t strike the same because of culture.

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      Sociopath and psychopath while once used as medical designations are now considered to be slurs for cluster B personality disorders. People use them interchangeably, doesn’t help the actual DSM designations are asocial personality disorder and antisocial personality disorder